笔记:Secrets of the Baby Whisperer
2019年3月1日 08:00
Tracy Hogg 的程序育儿系列第一部 Secrets of the Baby Whisperer(中文版:婴语的秘密)。从图书馆拿到这本书的时候,发现前半本已经被翻得有点烂,最开始的几页有一些水渍和其他黄色褐色的渍,很惨的样子。不知道有多少人深陷育儿大坑,翻这书救命呢。
另外发现一个台湾妈妈也对这本书做了笔记。
Chapter 1: Loving the Baby You Gave Birth To #
- 5 days to a couple of months after birth is the best time to know the baby (or what kind of personality the baby have).
- The angel: feeds, plays, sleeps easily, and take simulants well.
 - The textbook: makes predictable cues, and makes the right development at the right time – few surprises.
 - The touchy: ultrasensitive o sounds, cries for no reason sometimes, needs peace and quiet; good to swaddle, “sh”, and rhythmic pats on the back.
 - The spirited: vocal/agressive, makes jerky movements; needs swaddling to fall asleep, and likes grab his/her own bottle/toys.
 - The grumpy: whimpy, irritable, doesn’t smile; requires patience, loud “sh"s, and swaying front to back.
 
 - Home coming routine: slow things down.
- introduce the baby to each room via a dialogue
 - make some tea
 - give the baby a bath/feed
 - take a nap
 
 - Tip: get everything ready a month before the due date – put sheets on the crib, get wipes and diapers on the changing table, wash baby’s new clothes, stock the fridge.
 
总结:回家了以后 baby 的性格很快就显现出来了,不过需要仔细观察。章节里提供了调查表,建议两个人各完成一份,以确定 baby 的性格。另外 baby 虽然不会说话但也是个人类,所以要在言语、举止间展现对 baby 的尊重。不是单方面对 baby 说话,而是两人对话。...
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